Doxing, initially a practice for undermining hackers' online anonymity by "dropping docs", has evolved into a tool used for real-world extortion, employing violence-as-a-service tactics like "brickings", "firebombings" and "shootings". This escalation reflects a troubling trend where digital conflicts manifest physically and is facilitated by legal gray areas. The ambiguous stance on doxing in U.S. policy complicates accountability, making it a pressing concern for privacy and personal safety.This talk features first-hand insights from individuals engaged in doxing, through exclusive interviews, which have never been disclosed to the public previously. This includes a wanted threat actor involved in a DEA Data Portal hack, and an administrator of the largest doxing website, Doxbin. This provides a rare glimpse into the secretive world of doxing, and lesser-known privacy intrusion techniques, such as impersonating law enforcement and submitting fraudulent Emergency Data Requests. The session concludes with actionable advice on safeguarding personal privacy to reduce the risk and impact of doxing. Attendees will leave equipped with knowledge of preventative measures, alongside a call for policy reform to address gaps in U.S. legal frameworks that enable doxing to thrive. This talk not only sheds light on the dark underbelly of cyber extortion, but also fosters a dialogue on essential changes needed to curb the proliferation of doxing.