Security teams have historically been the scary people in black with stompy boots off in the corner, not talking to anyone. We're not talking to anyone because they're scared of us, and that fear has caused more bugs than we've ever fixed. It's also stopping us from talking to the teams that can do more to help us than anyone else, designers. Wait, designers, really? And what's this about candy? Lemme tell you a story about a different way, why you'd really like to change how you work, and how you get there. You don't even have to get rid of the boots, I promise.